How long do you hold a grudge?

[nexxus]

It seems that since I mentioned exploring the possibility of racing again some people have decided to, lets say try and start a public panic.

Granted the way I had acted previously was less than stellar, but after a year off, buying a house, getting married etc, I'd like to think I've grown up a bit.

After apologising on forums, to Dave by email, and to anyone else who I thought had a bone to pick with me, what more needs to be done before people can just move on like adults?

Is asking to prove that hey I have grown up, I can rock up, race, and not come home and bitch on forums, get over competitive etc, is that a hard thing to do?

Or is it those who hold the grudges the ones who need to move on?

If someone has something constructive to suggest, please PM me, I'm all ears!

[Wilkinson]

Hey Nexxus.....i don't know why you really care hey, seriously, there is more inportant stuff in life than worring about if net people like you or not.

If someone doesn't like you, who cares, you aint gonna get along with everyone in this world, i sure know i don't.

BTW, i've never met ya or spoken to you, so your cool by me :D

[nexxus]

Hey Nexxus.....i don't know why you really care hey, seriously, there is more inportant stuff in life than worring about if net people like you or not.

If someone doesn't like you, who cares, you aint gonna get along with everyone in this world, i sure know i don't.

BTW, i've never met ya or spoken to you, so your cool by me :D


Thats true, at the end of the day not everyone is going to like everyone else, some people still gain pleasure from acting as if we're in a school yard, childish teasing etc etc

To each their own I guess!

[Wilkinson]

King : thats only cause when you were a kid, noone would share there lollies with you :P

[Matt]

Lets say someone slept with your mrs.

Now answer your question: How long do you hold a grudge?

[nexxus]

Lets say someone slept with your mrs.

Now answer your question: How long do you hold a grudge?


Good point, it is dependant on the circumstance.

However as I am referring to RC cars I think it best to keep it in that context for the purpose of this discussion.

[remotebandit]

Look , im not posting too much these days but hsd to interfere and put my 2 cents in on this 1 .

Nexx , i couldnt stand you from EXACTLY your first post as you were the saddest c##t on this earth and its also no secret the feelings were mutual but bloke , you came back in here with another user name and a different attitude as apposed to that shocking " its me against the rest of the world " attitude and i actually find you a decent guy and actually helpfull being a team member here on the forum and not a whinger .

Ive traded a few items with you and alls been perfect and i can assure everyone that my grudge has gone so to answer the question i reckon yes it does depend on what someone does to you but for petty things like little school ground arguments that 99% of us have had with Nexx time heals everything and people get over their problems . I never spoke to my brother from ages 10 to 25 and now that we are in our 30s we are best friends .

Anyway , back under the rock from whence i came .

Adam .

PS ... King , im still holding my grudge on you for the frikkin 4 rolls of stikky tape on the box of the Cayenne you sent me as it made it impossible for me to open the box in the car at the traffic lights / while i was driving home from the post office so suck it .

PPS .. James , i let some language fly thinking the thread would edit it but it didnt so maybee check that out ... hehe